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We all carry our mobile phones with names & numbers stored in
its memory but nobody, other than ourselves, knows which of
these numbers belong to our closest family or friends. If we were to be involved in an accident or were taken ill, the
people attending us would have our mobile phone but wouldn't
know who to call. Yes, there are hundreds of numbers stored but
which one is the contact person in case of an emergency? Hence
this "ICE" In Case of Emergency) Campaign. The concept of "ICE" is catching on quickly. It is a method of
contact during emergency situations. As cell phones are carried
by the majority of the population, all you need to do is store
the number of a contact person or persons who should be
contacted during emergency under the name "ICE" ( In Case of
Emergency). The idea was thought up by a Paramedic who found that when he
went to the scenes of accidents, there were always mobile phones
with patients, but they didn't know which number to call. He
therefore thought that it would be a good idea if there was a
nationally recognized name for this purpose. In an emergency
situation, Emergency Service personnel and hospital Staff would
be able to quickly contact the right person by simply dialing
the number you have stored as "ICE." For more than one contact name simply enter ICE1, ICE2 and ICE3
etc. A great idea that will make a difference! Let's spread the concept of ICE by storing an ICE number in our
Mobile phones today!
Be your best friend. Get caught with you in the rain. Dance with you in the rain. Stargaze on a clear night. Watch the sunset together. Spend all day with you doing nothing. Moonlit walks on the beach. Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment. Go on a carriage ride through the park. Do a crossword together. Go to brunch. Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger). Go for a twilight horseback ride. Watch a bad movie together. Spend the rest of my life with you. Have our picture taken together. Eat ice cream with you. Make love to you passionately. Go to a museum together. Talk to each other using only body language. Give you space when you need it. Accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do). Discuss current events in a heated debate. Have you see the error of your ways from aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of all that passion. Carve our names into a tree/table. Go for a walk at dusk together. Be one with you. Send you a singing telegram. Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you. Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you. Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes. Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic. Spend my life making you happy. Spend my life making our family happy. Feel your heartbeat. See our unborn child in your eyes. Go roller skating together. Give you a backrub just because. ALWAYS being honest with each other. Go hiking/camping together. Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we very successfully weathered the storm - together. Marry you. (already done) Laugh at someone together. Share a plate of spaghetti. (already done) Give you a stuffed animal just because. Go on a fun family vacation and bring back the kind of memories movies are made of. Treat you like my princess. Go on a road trip across America. Count thunder together during a thunderstorm. Envelop you in my soul. Cook your favorite meals. Know you better than you know yourself. Go to a Renaissance Fair. Plant a tree in our yard together. Look over at you during a party or something and have you know without me saying a word - that I love you. Be able to say "I love you" in 89 different ways - in 89 different countries. Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most. Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding. Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
I will Grow old with you.
Got anyone like this in your life? One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't anymore. No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute." Sometimes, what we care a bou t the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, say "I love you."
So while we have it . it's best we love it and care for it and fix it when it's broken ... .. and heal it when it's sick. This is true for marriage . and old cars .. and children with bad report cards and dogs with bad hips and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a classmate we grew up with. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.
Life is important, like people we know who are special. and so, We keep them close!
I received this from someone who thought I was a 'keeper'! Then I sent it to the people I think of in the same way. Now it's your turn to send this to all those people who are "keepers" in your life, including the person who sent it if you feel that way. Suppose one morning you never wak e u p , do all your friends know you love them?
I was thinking...I could die today, tomorrow or next week, and I wondered if I had any wounds needing to be healed, friendships that needed rekindling or three words needing to be said.
Let every one of your! friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back, you would be amazed at what those three little words and a smile can do.
And just in case GOD calls me home . I LOVE YA!!! I'm sssoooo glad you're part of my life!
Live today to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised.
When Pinay first came here she told me I was clean and neat for a man. At first I thought she was being funny but I found she is crazy about clean. She wants the world to be sterile not just clean. I try to explain you can go to far. To much of anything is not good for you. Nothing is clean enough or in order enough for her. Sometimes it can get next to me. She has rearranged everything in the house. Now I do not know where most things are any more. But what can I say? I let her do her thing if that makes her happy. Some times I can see she get upset with me when she wants me to help do things and I do not want to. She even trys to make me sterile. That really is funny. I feel sorry for her son since he can not tell her to stop.
She also wants me to believe she is sickly. I do not think she is but I do think she believes she is. Really likes for people to feel sorry for her. Sorry, I can not do much of that. I think she was spoiled to much as a child. She is looking over my shoulder now and trying to tell me what I am saying here.
Excuse me while I tell her this is my mind thinking and if she has something to say then comment.
Now, back to what I was thinking. Was she always like this? You can be so clean ans cterile that it is not good for you. I will not tell you all the ways and stuff she trys to clean and keep clean. Sometimes I think I should make a small mess just to show her it is OK. She is not doing this to impress me but she is just off a little about this. I will work on her to get her to relax a little about this. From what I can tell a lot of childish behavoir happens in Pinay's family and friends. Things have happenned on the phone and in person that make me think some people have never grown up. There is also a lot of gossip that happens on that side. Everyone talks about being church going people but they do not act like it to me. For the most part Pinay has a great family but a few are not really all that cool. Glad I do not have to deal with those few in person. Where I come from bullshit stops when you are still a child. If someone talks about you what you do is simple. You beat them up. So you see you learn young not to talk about people or spread gossip unless you are ready to fight. Control of your temper is another thing I see most of them have not learned. I am really glad to be Black because we do know better. It is true we are very fast to fight. Being that way we learned very young not to start anything if you do not want it to be something.
Let me tell you a story about something that happenned to me when I was really young. We moved to a new place and I was maybe 9 years old. While my Mother and others were moving things in the house I was outside looking around. I met some of the guys that live around there. The first thing that happenned was I got into a fight. it was not what you may thing. It was so the guys could see what kind of person I was. I did not matter if I won or lost, it did matter if I would fight. More important was if I would tell what had happenned. I came in the house my nose bleeding and Mother asked what had happenned. I told her nothing much just meeting the guys and introducing myself. may not sound right to you but it works well for us.
This is a big part of being Black. Always be ready to defend yourself and what you believe is right. If someone wants to start gossip or talk about you, it must be time to fight. If you do not fight then you should stop talking about what people are saying and really stop talking to those that are talking about you. Seems everyone I have heard about on Pinay's side is really cool and I am happy to have them as part of my family and me part of thier family. But there are 2 or 3 that I prefer not to speak to because they are just childish, foolish and stupid people. If someone talked crazy to me I would be more than happy to fight. I do not forgive and forget. What I do is get even. I never take sides but says forget it.
1. The end of the world is coming, if you can save only one kind of animal, which one will you pick?
Rabbit Sheep Deer Horse
Rabbit: You are attracted to those who have split personality, like cold as ice on the outside, but hot as fire in the heart. Sheep: You are attracted to those who are warm and obedience. Deer: You are attracted to those who are elegant and well-mannered. Horse: You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free.
2. You go to Africa. When you visit a tribe, they insist you take an animal as a souvenir, which one will you choose?
Monkey Lion Snake Giraffe
Monkey: In the process of courtship, the approach that would make you feel irresistible is creative, never let you feel bored. Lion: In the process of courtship, the approach that would make you feel irresistible is straight-forward, just tell you he/she loves you. Snake: In the process of courtship, the approach that would make you feel irresistible is moods-swing, blow hot and cold in love, vacillate. Giraffe: In the process of courtship, the approach that would make you feel irresistable is patience, never give up on you.
3. You did something wrong. Instead of being a human, God punish you to be an animal, you will choose...
Dog Cat Horse Snake
Dog: The impression you would like to give to your lover is loyal, faithful, never change. Cat: The impression you would like to give to your lover is stylish. Horse: The impression you would like to give to your lover is optimistic. Snake: The impression you would like to give to your lover is flexible.
4. If you have the power to make one species disappear forever, which one will that be?
Lion Snake Crocodile Shark
Lion: What you hate most in your partner is the person's arrogance (acting like a dictator which pisses you off). Snake: You don't like it when your partner is emotional and/or too moody; and you don't know how to please him/her. Crocodile: What you hate most in your partner is that the person is ruthless, cold-blooded, and/or ironic. Shark: You don't like it when your partner is insecure.
5. One day, you met an animal which can speak human language, you wish that'll be...
Sheep Horse Rabbit Bird
Sheep: The kind of relationship you would like to build with your partner is traditional, without saying anything, the other will know what you want, both of you communicate by hearts. Horse: The kind of relationship you would like to build with your partner is that both of you can talk about everything and anything, no secret is kept. Rabbit: The kind of relationship you would like to build with your partner is one which make you feel warmth and in-love always. Bird: The kind of relationship you would like to build with your partner is one that you care not only about the present but also the future with your partner, a long-lasting relationship that you can grow with.
6. On an isolated island, you can only have an animal as your companion, which one you'll choose...
Human Pig Cow Bird
Human: You care about the society and morality, you won't do anything wrong after marriage. Pig: You can't resist desire and lust; most probably you'll commit adultery. Cow: You are tolerant; you'll try very hard not to commit adultery. Bird: You can never be stabilized; actually, you are not suitable for marriage and you don't want to make commitment.
7. If you have the super power to tame all kinds of animal, you'll choose what kind of animal to be your pet?
Dinosaur White Tiger Polar Bear Leopard
Dinosaur: You are quite pessimistic, you don't think happy marriages exist anymore nowadays. White Tiger: You think of marriage as a precious thing. Once you get married, you'll treasure it and your partner very much. Polar Bear: You are afraid of marriage, you think it would take away your freedom. Leopard: You always want to get married, but in fact, you don't even know what it really is.
8. If you have a 5-minute time to be an animal, which one you would like to be?
Lion Cat Horse Pigeon
Lion: At this moment, you don't have the thirst for love, you can't do anything for it, you won't fall for it easily.
Cat: At this moment, you are quite self-centered; you think of love as something you can get and trash anytime you want. Horse: At this moment, you don't want to be tied down by a steady relationship, you just want to flirt around. Pigeon: At this moment, you think of love as a commitment for both parties.
Check Your Life And Love Pattern If It Matches Reality
Is your birthday day 1 of the month?
Your Life You are very curious and dedicative. When you are interested in something, everything else has to wait. This is your quality. But if you learn to be more patient and complete what you have started, you will be successful in life.
Your Love You believe in love at first sight. You won't wait to learn more about the person. Vise versa, people who fail to impress you will hardly get a chance to be your friend. Your emotion is on the extreme. You can only love or hate, nothing in between and this often shows in your expression. Try not to end a relationship in a quarrel.
Is your birthday day 2 of the month?
Your Life You have great common sense but usual ly fail to follow through. This might happens because you are too busy with your mission and shut yourself from the outside world. You are clever and profound so there's a slight chance for self-control problem.
Your Love Your love progress slowly, and quietly. You seem to be contented with your unrequited love. Your are a romantic and loyal lover.
Is your birthday day 3 of the month?
Your Life Although you are innocent and romantic but your expression often mislead others that you are an active, fun loving kid. Because of your double personality, it's hard for others to really know the real you. You are careful and patient.
Your Love Your love is the greatest which often surprises others. No one can bring you to light when you are in love. Your confidence might lead you to the track your parents disagree.
Is your birthday day 4 of the month?
Your Life You usually think before acting which makes your life quite easy. But you often are the one who give yourself a hard time by being paranoid. People might not truly understand you but you are really nice to be around. You are cheerful and friendly.
Your Love Still water runs deep, that's what you are. You always surprise others with your new character when you are in love. Your love trap often comes unexpectedly and your love life is full of surprises.
Is your birthday day 5 of the month?
Your Life Although you are on the quiet side, but you enjoy excitement and changes. Routine is something you cannot stand. Because of your extreme confidence, you hardly ask others for opinion. You believe in leading your own life, and you have got the gift in doing so.
Your Love Nothing can stop you from making progress in your love life. Once you are in love, you feel the ownership of your lover. A third party can only makes your jealousy becomes worse.
Is your birthday day 6 of the month?
Your Life You are generous with people in need, sometimes to an extreme that people find you nosey. Your hidden courage and dedication often surprise others. Your imagination is extremely unique.
Your Love Your love life is on the smooth track because it grows from friendship. Although you may not make a sweet lover but your sincerity bring happiness to your couple.
Is your birthday day 7 of the month?
Your Life You are sensitive to changes around you but your feeling is hardly expressed. You hate exaggerations. Under your quiet personality, you are rather stubborn and self-centered. These qualities are the force behind your extreme persistence.
Your Love You have enormous courage to please your lover. Your relationship often progress quickly.
Is your birthday day 8 of the month?
Your Life You have pleasant and friendly personality. People look you to your wit and imagination. You are unpredictable and hardly complete what you started, which sometimes create negative impact to people around you.
Your Love Falling in love becomes your routine. Most of the time you are lucky. You fascinate people with good taste but you never have enough with one. Although your love progresses very fast, it never lasts.
Is your birthday day 9 of the month?
Your Life You often have problem in promoting yourself, just because you don't know how to express your true self. On the other hand, you don't really care what they think. This is why people misunderstand you until they really get a chance to learn about your pleasant personality. Opposite sex find you mysterious and worth searching. Your wit is remarkable but sometimes you are too fast to follow.
Your Love You won't reveal your feeling even after dreaming about the same guy over and over. Your first love lasts forever. You are responsible to the feeling of your lover. The chance to betray your lover is none. You have luck with children.
Is your birthday day 10 of the month?
Your Life You are very capable. If you are a woman, you have high chance to be a renowned workingwoman. If you are a man, your path to fame and honor is near. As an innovator, you are not a good follower. You are good in implementing your imagination and share it with others. You are always well dressed.
Your Love You often lose your love ones from being too jealous. You always feel like you own the person you fall in love with and that often blows your relationship.
Is your birthday day 11 of the month?
Your Life You are gracious, elegant and prudent. People admire your qualities and some even become jealous of you. You are realistic, flexible and adaptable. You are remarkably kind and moral person.
Your Love You are willing to sacrifice yourself for the one you love. Your lover will always have your gentleness, care and loyalty. You will always be happy to hand around the one you love.
Is your birthday day 12 of the month?
Your Life You are friendly, humorous and full of energy. You are open-minded and do not care for minor details. Your weak point is your hot temper.
Your Love You are willing to start off in one-sided love affairs because you strongly believe that you will eventually win his/her heart. On the other hand, once you are together, you always want to do things your way, which is often the fire starter. You usually run in and out of love quickly.
Is your birthday day 13 of the month?
Your Life You are sincere and easy going. Flattering and charming around are not your style. You care so much for freedom that often leads you to the difficult path. Because of your sincerity, most people find you easy to be around although you are sometimes too str ightforward.
Your Love Your gentleness, care and sincerity make you an attractive person. Eventhough you don't intend to be charming, but you naturally are, especially in the eyes of opposite sex.
Is your birthday day 14 of the month?
Your Life You are so confident that sometimes you forget about the people around you. If you have to be in one of the two teams, you will choose to be in the winning team. On the other hand, you are kind and caring but above all, you care for your own benefits. Your imagination is unique and often gets implemented sh ortly after it comes across.
Your Love You will not get soft with the one you don't really like, no matter how hard he/she tries. But once you feel for someone you have chosen, there's no getting back.
Is your birthday day 15 of the month?
Your Life You are outgoing and love to be at the center of attention. From the outside, you may seem flashy, flirty, and tricky but your true self is strong, full of hope to be the leader. When you fail to convince someone, you will get frustrated, and perhaps let your temper shows.
Your Love You are emotional. Many can win your heart at once, but not for long. This is why you hardly win a decent relationship.
Is your birthday day 16 of the month?
Your Life You always follow the good and the right instead of listening to your heart. Another word, you are a perfectionist. You care for every word people say about you. You often seen isolated while you are, by nature, curious and a dreamer who is ready to get over the edge to make your dream comes true.
Your Love You often fall in love with a person who is much different from you, in age and other aspects. Your relationship grows on friendship. Love at fist sight is not your style.
Is your birthday day 17 of the month?
Your Life You neither want to be interfered nor have the desire to mess with others' life. But you are friendly and occasionally a party animal. You are always in a circle of friends. You often do things in your own way that occasionally go beyond the acceptable limit. People may find you childish and not very attractive in that sense.
Your Love Your fun-loving character attracts opposite sex. Many of those are great.You often find yourself trapped among a few great guys while you have to choose only one.
Is your birthday day 18 of the month?
Your Life At first glance, people think you are quiet type of person. Actually you are cheerful, but conditionally. You will show your joyful character only in good mood. One the other hand, when you are moody, no one would dare to be around. Because of your emotion fluctuation and frank character, some find you hard to be around.
Your Love You hardly show your feeling towards opposite sex no matter how much you like him/her. Your partner also has similar character so your love affairs often take quite a while to flourish. Time tells it all. Your sincerity makes you very attractive.
Is your birthday day 19 of the month?
Your Life You are great in managing everything in your life and this is how you gain respect from others. Because of this quality, you sometimes feel that you are better than the rest. Extreme confidence might lead you to the wrong path. You are a free bird and want to lead your own life.
Your Love You love life is rather different from others'. When you are in love, nothing can stop you. You may often fight with your partner but, soon after that, you will make up in a way that surprises others.
Is your birthday day 20 of the month?
Your Life You are prudent, circumspect and take things seriously. Before you make any move, you will think of a few alternatives that might take a while. You are patient, imaginative and target oriented. You value friendship more than anything else.
Your Love You usually study your partner carefully before making any move. You never demand anything beyond the natural quality of that person. Your sincerity doesn't bring excitement in your love life but it brings deeply grown relationship.
Is your birthday day 21 of the month?
Your Life You are curious and a true follower. You can please someone so much that it seem like you are trying to charm that person. You hide your disagreement under your smiling face. This is a charming quality of yours.
Your Love You are quite unlucky in love. You are loved by someone you don't like while your dream man is so far away. Your love l ife is occasionally under turbulence. Sometimes you don't have the clear view of the guy in your heart.
Is your birthday day 22 of the month?
Your Life
You have the boss character, but not a leader. Most people look up to you for your capability and confidence although they find you quite stubborn. You should listen more to others. You are a unique and charming individual.
Your Love You hardly take the moderate track. You either love or hate someone. Whom you call friends are the chosen ones. If any of them betray you, you won't let them get away without having hard time.
Is your birthday day 23 of the month?
Your Life You never live your life in the way others want you to. You are an indepen dent individual who loves challenges and excitement. You are ready to face with the result of your decision. You are usually the one your friends count on.
Your Love Because you love excitements, you occasionally get involved in forbidden love affairs. You may fall in love with a married person and no one can stop you from making progress. You are very charming, although you might not realize it.
Is your birthday day 24 of the month?
Your Life You are very optimistic and that's why you always enjoy life. You are gifted in entertaining others. Your friends love and trust you. You'll be the first they come to when they are in need of someone to speak their heart out.
Your Love Sometimes you fall in love just because you want to be in love, not that you really like that person. You always be seen as a sw eet couple but you can't really get over your love ones from past. Your partner is usually crazy about you because you are remarkably charming and romantic.
Is your birthday day 25 of the month?
Your Life You are a warrior. No obstacle can stop you from reaching your goal. You always keep yourself busy. This quality plus your responsibility will eventually bring you success.
Your Love You adore y ur partner as the number one priority. You value your love one more than yourself. Your love is the greatest of all and your have potential to get married young.
Is your birthday day 26 of the month?
Your Life You are always curious and responsive to changes. Routine life is not the way you choose to live. Travelling is your favorite hobby because excitement is what you are after.
Your Love You will not stand being around the one you dislike. Your love comes and goes quickly. You can be deeply in love but soon after you will be looking around for the next one.
Is your birthday day 27 of the month?
Your Life You are sensitive and vulnerable. Tears often run down your cheeks even when the matter is not that bad. This might be the result from being to pessimistic. You might seem cold on the shell, but your inner self is a kind loving person.
Your Love You will be elegantly dressed, no matter how casually dressed your date may be. You are emanding in love and sometimes to an unacceptable extend.
Is your birthday day 28 of the month?
Your Life You are a capable person but you usually underestimate your own ability. This is the cause of missing numbers of opportunity to step forward. If you try to give yourself a chance, you can be successful in life. Try to see things on the bright side and you will be happier than ever.
Your Love You are quite unlucky in love. The one in your arm is not the one in your heart. Your love has so many ups and downs. You often chicken out before seeing any progress in love.
Is your birthday day 29 of the month?
Your Life You can trust your sixth sense. Life is exciting so routine job is not your interest. You have great ideas and fantastic imagination. You often feel tired of things and people around you.
Your Love You can tell what's in the mind of another person just from looking into his/her eyes. You are paranoid and jealous and these are the cause of fights between you and your lover. Sometimes the thing you believe in is just your imagination.
Is your birthday day 30 of the month?
Your Life You are always surrounded by a circle of friends. You are friendly and fun to be with. Though you occasionally disappoint them by being stubborn, but over all, they love your qualities.
Your Love You want to have full control of your love and that's not a nice way to treat your partner. You take your time in saying yes to his wedding proposal or if you are a man, you will not propose anyone until you are certainly confident which might take ages.
Is your birthday day 31 of the month?
Your Life Your emotion is hard to predict. You can be sad this minute and happy in the next. People might find it difficult to follow your emotion and understand you. You tend to take things seriously.
Your Love You take your time to study a person before falling in love. Once you decide that he or she is the one, no one can stop you from making progress, even your partner.
(This is a Fun Way of Knowing What Type of Person You Are!)
When you step into a shower,which part of the body do you wash first?
Armpits Chest Face Hair Privates Shoulders Others
If you have selected the armpits...
You are a dependable and hard working person. Generally very popular person as you are very down to earth and willing to help others. You tend to get yourself into trouble as you cannot tell if people are genuine towards you. You make very poor sex partner as you are the working type with an average talent. Your best partner in life will be those who choose Shoulders.
If you have selected the chest...
You are a practical person. You are straight forward and do not beat around the bush. To you, convenience is of paramount importance. You hate to be distracted when concentrating and are impatient with people who do not see things your way. You are a good sex partner and willing to try new things. Your best partner in life will be those who choose Hair.
If you have selected the face...
Money is important to you and you will do anything to get it. Integrity and dignity is not important. You feel that friends are there to be used and life is one big hassle. Other people find it hard to understand you, but you are not concerned as to what they think. You are a very self-centered person. You are an average sex partner as you are too selfish and tend to be absorbed in self pleasure at the expense of your partner. Your best partner in life will be those who choose Privates and Others.
If you have selected the hair...
You are an artistic type. Daydreaming is your hobby, but you can achieve what most other people cannot. You are lacking in dedication, but you will work tirelessly towards goals which are to your liking. Money is not important. Friends are but only intellectuals and fellow artistic types. You make the best sex partner as you are most willing to explore and please the other partner. Talent is your main strength. Your best partner in life will be those who chose Chest and Privates.
If you have selected the privates... You are the shy type. You lack self confidence and tend to be bullied by others. You do not have lots of friends as others find you boring and unattractive. Perserverance is not your strength and you tend to give up easily and at the first opportunity. However, you make an above average sex partner. You are able to show your true emotions to very few people. Hence, in sex, you find your inner strengths. Your best sex partner in life will be those who choose Face and Hair.
If you have selected the shoulders...
You are a born loser. You fail in everything that you do. People dislike you and you tend to spend your time alone. Your type have been known to be heavy gamblers and drinkers. You see the world as a living hell. Money and power is also important to you. But your luck will always fail you. You make a lousy sex partner. You will find it difficult to find a partner in life. Those who choose Armpits are your only chance.
If you have selected the others...
You are a very average person. Undoubtedly, you have your inner strengths, but people find it hard to see. You must learn to be a little bit more adventurous and see your potential. Deep down, you are avery likeable person with very few faults. However, the key will be to make your strengths stand out and not just hide your weaknessess. You are an average sex partner. You have great fantasies about different techniques, but unfortunately are not brave enough to try them out. Your best partner in life will be those who choose Face. 1. Sleeping too late and waking up too late are main cause. 2. Not urinating in the morning. 3. Too much eating. 4. Skipping breakfast. 5. Consuming too much medication. 6. Consuming too much preservatives, additives, food coloring , and artificial sweetener. 7. Consuming unhealthy cooking oil. As much as possible reduce cooking oil use when frying, which includes even the best cooking oils like olive oil. Do not consume fried foods when you are tired, except if the body is very fit. 8. Consuming raw (overly done) Foods also add to the burden of liver. Veggies should be eaten raw or cooked 3-5 parts. Fried veggies should be finished in one sitting, do not store.
We should prevent this without necessarily spending more. We just have to adopt a good daily lifestyle and eating habits. Maintaining good eating habits and time condition are very important for our bodies to absorb and get rid of unnecessary chemicals according to "schedule."
Because:
Evening at 9 - 11 PM :
is the time for eliminating unnecessary/toxic chemicals (detoxification) from the antibody system (lymph nodes). This time duration should be spent by relaxing or listening to music. If during this time a housewife is still in an unrelaxed state such as washing the dishes or monitoring children doing their homework, this will have a negative impact on health.
Evening at 11pm - 1 am :
is the detoxification process in the liver, and ideally should be done in a deep sleep state.
Early morning 1 - 3 am :
detoxification process in the gall, also ideally done in a deep sleep state.
Early morning 3 - 5 am : detoxification in the lungs. Therefore there will sometimes be a severe cough for cough sufferers during this time. Since the detoxification process had reached the respiratory tract, there is no need to take cough medicine so as not to interfere with toxin removal process.
Morning 5 - 7am : detoxification in the colon, you should empty your bowel.
Morning 7 - 9 am :
absorption of nutrients in the small intestine, you should be having breakfast at this time. Breakfast should be earlier, before 6:30 am , for those who are sick. Breakfast before 7:30 am is very beneficial to those wanting to stay fit. Those who always skip breakfast, they should change their habits, and it is still better to eat breakfast late until 9 - 10 am rather than no meal at all.
Sleeping so late and waking up too late will disrupt the process of removing unnecessary chemicals. Aside from that, midnight to 4:00 am is the time when the bone marrow produces blood.
Therefore, have a good sleep and don't sleep late.
1. No Breakfast People who do not take breakfast are going to have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain causing brain degeneration.
2. Overeating It causes hardening of the brain arteries, leading to a decrease in mental power.
3. Smoking It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may lead to Alzheimer disease.
4. High Sugar consumption Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition and may interfere with brain development.
5. Air Pollution The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our body. Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease in brain efficiency.
6. Sleep Deprivation Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.
7. Head covered while sleeping Sleeping with the head covered, increases the concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain damaging effects.
8. Working your brain during illness Working hard or studying with sickness may lead to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well as damage the brain.
9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.
10. Talking Rarely Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of the brain.
Crab mentality describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, neither can you."
Anyone familiar with the behaviour of a bunch of crabs trapped at the bottom of a bucket will know what happens when one of them tries to climb to the top; instead of attempting the climb themselves, those left at the bottom of the bucket will do all in their collective power to drag the climber back down.
This term is broadly associated with short-sighted, non-constructive thinking rather than a unified, long-term, constructive mentality. It is also often used colloqially in reference to individuals or communities attempting to "escape" a so-called "underprivileged life", but kept from doing so by those others of the same community or nation attempting to ride upon their coat-tails or who simply resent their success.
And whether those peaks represent success on the sporting field, in the business world, in the academic arena, or in any other realm of life, including life itself, there will always be those who give up on their quest to climb life's mountains, and instead choose to remain at the bottom of life's bucket — which would be fine, as long as they didn't then devote their destructive efforts, like the crabs, to pulling the climbers back down.
In different cultures: For Filipinos, crab mentality is the tendency to "outdo another at the other's expense"[1] or to "pull down those who strive to be better."[2] An overzealous leader becomes morally shamed.[3] It "became a call for community leaders to acknowledge indebtedness to others and to work for the good of the entire community and not just for themselves."[4]
In Hawaii, it is known as the 'alamihi syndrome, an 'alamihi being a local black crab. Hawaiians are criticized behaving like 'alamihi, which "always manage to pull down the ones who are trying to climb up and over the sides of a bucket."
Similar analogies are used against natives in other areas, such as Maoris in New Zealand, coastal Indians in Canada and the United States, and Chamorros in Guam.
It has been suggested that African Americans have inherited a cultural crab mentality based on a "doomsday mentality," because in times of slavery and segregation it was difficult, if not impossible to for them to use education even after it had been acquired.
We, Filipinos, are repeatedly and endlessly portrayed by others, especially by our kababayans overseas, as people who have a 'crab mentality'. What does it really mean? Would you find this to be true or would you rather call it an insulting stereotype?
Well, I would agree that Filipinos are more known to have a this kind of mentality. This has started when the Spaniards colonized the Philippines & less fortunate Filipinos were mistreated. Some Filipinos would acts "Kapili" or spy against fellow Filipinos or rebels and report them to the Spaniards for an amount of money. Same things happen here, fellow Filipinos report overstayed Filipinos to the U.S. gov't for an amount of money. Majority of the Filipinos would not want their fellows to be more than what they are, whether they may be a friend, co-worker, church people, relatives, etc. This could be seen done by almost every individual, whether rich or poor. I'm sure all of you have your own experiences how crab mentality was applied to you. I don't need to mention situations, but I've experienced it very often almost everywhere I go. But what is disappointing is that, those people whom you lease expect to harm you, & who never knew anything about you, would actually be the first to pull you down. I remember what Black always tells me, there are only 2 kinds of people to hurt you, your friends & your family. I agree to this. Though almost everyone in the family is very supportive, there would always be somebody else who will not be. Well, the best thing you should do, get them totally out of your life.
What if other creatures are like that too? When someone is fishing, and he caught a fish - the fish will try to pull other fish up too, and the other fish will pull another. “If I’m to die, you guys must die with me too”, say the fish. So the fisherman will get loads of fish..Hahaha
1. When a winner commits a mistake he says "I am wrong". When a loser commits a mistake he says "It's not my fault"
2. A winner works harder and has more time than a loser. A loser always is too busy to do what is necessary.
3. A winner faces and solves his problems. A loser does otherwise.
4. A winner compromises.
A loser makes promises.
5. A winner would say "I am good but not as good as I want to be". A loser would say "I am not as bad as the others"
6. A winner listens, understands and responds. A loser only waits until it is his turn to speak.
7. A winner respects people who are superior to him and would like to learn from them. A loser does otherwise, and would try to find his superiors' faults.
8. A winner is responsible not just for his own work. A loser will not dare help others and would say "I'm just doing my job."
9. A winner would say "There should be a better way to do it." A loser would say "This is the only way to do it."
10.A winner like you will share this with his friends. A loser will just keep this to himself because he doesn't have others to share this with."I guarantee there'll be tough times. I guarantee there'll be one day when one or both of us would want to get out. But I also guarantee that if I do not ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for the rest of my life 'coz I know in my heart, you're the only one." Everybody was sighing as we watched Julia Roberts say these lines to Richard Gere in an unromantic setting - the balcony of a building in bustling New York City in the movie Runaway Bride. A few scenes before that, it was Richard who said the same lines to Julia, likewise in an unromantic scenario, as they were talking about how people propose marriage.
True enough, when we were teenagers it was a question which we loved to answer in slumbooks. It remains a topic that creates giggles and shrieks whenever friends talk about it. But does one really know what love is? We often mistake it for a crush, an infatuation or Sometimes, even for the sheer joy in companionship. Sometimes, we think it's a feeling that we have when our hearts continue throbbing hard when we see that special person. Or when our knees start to shake and begin to weaken.
But can anyone really define love? I don't think so, not even the ones who think they have felt it, or those who are feeling it, or those who hope they will feel it. Not even my philosophy teacher. Because love is not something that you define... it's a decision.
When you feel that you love one person, how can you tell that he or she won't feel the same way for the next person who comes along? Love is not a feeling, it's a decision. 'Coz, when it's a feeling, it is something that floats in the air, something you cannot touch or dare to comprehend.
Love, when it's a decision, makes it solid, makes it a commitment, makes it more lasting and more real. You can feel that you can be in love 20 million times in a day, but when you decide to be in love, you can only decide to be in love with one person once in your lifetime. You commit and you hold on to that decision. And when you turn your back on that decision, it means you were never in love in the first place.
Love should never fade. Because when it does, it means it's just an emotion. Love will never fade because a decision, once done, is something you stand up for and fight for -- no matter what.
What does "I love you" mean? Some people find it easy to say the words but what really matter is being ready to stand up for it when you say those words. Are you ready to face all the consequences after saying those magical words?
If you can say "I love you" long after all the tough times, all the good times and after all the words that come hurting you, then the meaning of those words b ecomes real.
Of course, I still believe in those words but I myself am afraid to say them. But this is now the time when I won't be afraid of those words coming out of my mouth. Where I am strong enough to fight for love again. And I can say the words "no matter what".
Saying "I love you" is a major decision in one's life. Those words should be sacred, should be kept in your heart until you are ready to commit, to fight for that feeling and to stand by those words.
I guarantee that there will be tough times. Going back to the movie line that made everyone sigh: Yes, it is a decision to commit, it is a decision to love. And when you decide to love, you should realize that there will be tough times and there will come a time when you would want to get out. And when you realize that love comes with all things good or bad, then you know what love really is.
But there is love...
Everyone waits for love to come into his life. You do not even have to know the meaning of love. Because even without someone to love, there is a love truly waiting for you. A love greater than anything that one wants to feel, greater than what one hopes to happen.
Lack of love should not create feeling of emptiness inside you because there is always this Someone who will fill it up for you.
Just look up. A Spanish teacher was explaining to her class that in Spanish, unlike English, nouns are designated as either masculine or feminine.
"House" for instance, is feminine: "la casa."
"Pencil," however, is masculine: "el lapiz."
A student asked, "What gender is 'computer'?"
Instead of giving the answer, the teacher split the class into two groups, male and female, and asked them to decide for themselves whether "computer" should be a masculine or a feminine noun.
Each group was asked to give four reasons for its recommendation.
The men's group decided that "computer" should definitely be of the feminine gender ("la computadora" ), because:
1. No one but their creator understands their internal logic;
2. The native language they use to communicate with other computers is incomprehensible to everyone else;
3. Even the smallest mistakes are stored in long term memory for possible later retrieval; and
4. As soon as you make a commitment to one, you find yourself spending half your paycheck on accessories for it.
(THIS GETS BETTER!)
The women's group, however, concluded that computers should be Masculine ("el computador") , because:
1. In order to do anything with them, you have to turn them on;
2. They have a lot of data but still can't think for themselves;
3. They are supposed to help you solve problems, but half the time they ARE the problem; and
4. As soon as you commit to one, you realize that if you had waited a little longer, you could have gotten a better model.
The women won!
Once upon a time there lived a king. The king had a beautiful daughter,
the PRINCESS.
But there was a problem. Everything the princess touched would melt.
No matter what;
metal,
wood,
stone,
anything she touched would melt.
Because of this, men were afraid of her. Nobody would dare marry her.
The king despaired. What could he do to help his daughter?
He consulted his wizards and magicians. One wizard told the king,
"If your daughter touches one thing that does not melt in her hands,
she will be cured."
The king was overjoyed and came up with a plan.
The next day, he held a competition. Any man that could bring his daughter an object that would not melt would marry her and inherit the king's wealth.
THREE YOUNG PRINCES TOOK UP THE CHALLENGE.
The first brought a sword of the finest steel.
But alas, when the princess touched it, it melted.
The prince went away sadly.
The second prince brought diamonds.
He thought diamonds are the hardest substance in the world and would not melt. But alas, once the princess touched them, they melted.
He too was sent away disappointed.
:-[
The third prince approached. He told the princess, "Put your hand in my pocket and feel what is in there."
The princess did as she was told, though she turned red.
She felt something hard. She held it in her hand.
And it did not melt!!!
The king was overjoyed Everybody in the kingdom was overjoyed.
And the third prince married the princess and they both lived happily ever after.
Question: What was in the prince's pants? (Scroll down for the answer)
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M&M's of course.
They melt in your mouth, not in your hand.
Why, what were you thinking??
1. There are at least two people in this world that you would die for.
2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. You are special and unique.
8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.
10. When you think the world has turned its back on you take another look.
11. Always remember the compliments you received. Forget about the rude remarks.
Whenever God Closes One Door He Always Opens Another, Even Though Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway
I would rather have one rose and a kind word from a friend while I'm here than a whole truck load when I'm gone. Monday dawn when we left for Vegas, lack of sleep, prepared packed sandwiches & drinks, all set for long hours of trip. Since it was still dark, I took a nap while Black was driving. But when I started seeing some things around, I decided to look around. Amazing bec it was Black's 1st time to see snow along Death Valley desert for 17 yrs back & forth Vegas, while it's my 1st time to see snow in my entire life. Of course, we had to get off the car for me to feel the snow. It was something like a halo-halo fr iceberg's (why I say iceberg bec some store that sell halo-lao don't smash the ice very well). Temp was really very cold, making me have a headache. I really don't know how to express what I was feeling during those days, bec I'm also having upset stomach & dizziness, vomiting. Well, my aunt says it's part of stress. Me, I think it's also tension bec the next day will be the wedding date.
Tuesday came & Black was telling me that I look scared, I didn't notice that he's watching my behaviour. Yes, I admit I was kinda scared & tensed. I feel like there are thousands of insects in my stomach & that I need to blow. Plus my head still aches. I can't imagine myself getting into this situation w/o noone deciding for me. Also, the process was really fast, we didn't sweat at all. Having me think if the wedding was really real.
Black kept on asking what I feel now. I can't say anything bec I really don't think that there was any changes aside from me having a different lastname. He used to tell me about all the benefits a wife gets & disadvantage for a husband. I don't actually see or think of it that way, bec in the 1st place, I married this man not for comfort but for love. I admit, I had some kinda fear up to now. Fear that I might not be able to do what a wife for Black needs to do. & fear that he might be less caring & understanding man as I've known him for.
My close friends & family are happy for us & that's a great blessing a couple could ever get....
Well, I'll talk more about Vegas experience on my next blog... My Blackman is craving for my attention right now.  Now we are married. Pinay had to ask me if it really was a real wedding. We were married by a marriage commissioner for Clark County. It was over in about 3 mins. http://www.accessclarkcounty.com/recorder/Marriage/Search_aspx.html is the URL I showed her to prove it was real. She tells me this is the first time she is doing what she wants without anyone else having anything else to say about it. This is a good thing for her and for me. She is learning to make her own way in life. Before she did what made other people happy, now she is making herself happy.
How do I feel about it all now? I am glad we have done this. I believe it is possible that we can be together from now until 1 of us dies. Hard to describe LOVE to you in here because it is something you feel and there are no words for it. Now all I have to do is be understanding since I am a lot older than she is.
Here in California where we live my life has changed a great deal. Half of everything I have and ever will have is now her stuff. So it is now cheaper to keep her if you know what I mean. LOL, just a guy thing. I explained all this to her hoping she would understand how serious this is to me. When a guy gets married here if the woman leaves it could make a guy's life very hard. You could put it this way. If she leaves she gets the house he gets the payments, she gets the car he gets the payments, she get everything and he gets the payments. So you see, I am not going any where.
As we talked since being married she told me she was nervous about what to do as a good wife. All I could say is it is simple. The Bible says how all this works. The woman is subject to the man and the man is subject to God. What this means is I have the last word. That does not mean she is like a slave and has to do all I say. What this means is we should talk about everything and figure out what we want. But if we can not agree what we should do I should decide after we talk it out. But for the most part I think I should be able to give her what she wants how she wants and she would do the same for me.
Black
1 can condensed milk
6 egg yolk
2 tbsp butter
candy wrappers
1 c white sugar
Cook over low fire. Stir continuously until very thick. It should be thick enough to form into a small ball.
Let cool. Form into balls.
Syup: (optional)
Let white sugar melt over low fire. Stir occassionaly to avoid burning. When completely melted, quickly drop a ball. Use fork to coat ball.
Drop in any metal pan or plate. When cool, use a table knife to pry them loose. Wrap in candy wrappers.
Makes 35 candies.
Blackman sees it as excitement for me getting married to him. I might be behaving differently compared to people here, that is bec our family puts too much importance on occassions & most esp on wedding. That's why my aunt asked me when we spoke on the phone last christmas what am I going to wear? Almost everyone in my family feels bad not to be able to witness the occassion. I understand why Black thinks of it as something ordinary is bec this will be his 4th marriage.
The truth is, I was thinking that getting married with this man will make me feel apeace. That I don't need to worry about others & just enjoy being with him. But I don't know why suddenly I felt some sort of worry & fear. I know, that when I turn 200 lbs, or become more lazy, & not being w/ him most of the time, would result to our separation. These are the things he don't want to keep, that's why oftentimes when I ask how long will he love me, his answer would be "I don't know". I would think it's unfair bec me, my answer will always be, for as long as u love me. But that's his opinion, I respect that. But one more thng that is a big problem for me w/ Black is his being a smart ass. His friend, his sister & I says he's bossy & demanding, but he refuse to believe. I admire his being knowledgeable on everything but sometimes it goes to his head & unconsciously he acts like people around him is stupid or ignorant & that's always me, which then makes me have an attitude &, you know what happens next. Like I always need to give reasons why I say or do something. He thinks that I always speculate about almost anything. Give u an example; need to explain why I wanted a plant inside the house, why the plug-in type of air freshener, why do I have to lit incense, etc.....these are just some petty things which I need to justify. I know, I do all things for a purpose but it doesn't mean I need to explain everything. Since the time I was w/ Black, I've learned to keep my mouth shut as long as I could hold it, & have a lengthy patience to avoid confrontation. But Black doesn't enjoy it when conversation in one particular topic is short. U ask one thing, his answer would always be as thick as a book.
I remember back in the Phils, people around me respect, believe & look up to me bec I used to be the one whom they think knows & have done a lot of right things. But these hasn't reached my head to make me act like I'm the best. I just always wanted to be different. My principle is that, I don't need to flaunt what I know or have, I just need to set a good example.
Well, knowing how usual couples behave after marriage, I am thinking & wrried about how Black would treat me. I was asking him if he's going to be less than what he is now. But what I hope he changes for the best. Bec as what he is now, I think I can manage that...Oh, I love him so much when he starts to care & caresses me, making me feel that my existence is precious.
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