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ChangesI heard from a lot of couples that the reason why they had problems with their marriages is because each one changes.
Man claims that woman is the first to change once they become comfortable with each other. But what man don't realize is that they are actually the ones who started to change that makes a woman to change too.
Why do I say this, let me set an example...
During the first months of the relationship, man tends to show the woman how much they care, how much they miss them when they are apart just for a couple of hours. Man would take care of everything that a woman needs even if they don't ask for it. Which of course, will make a woman fall tremendously in love for him.
Now, when a woman starts to show concern, care and trust to that man, then he would begin to change. They become the natural being as they were, where the woman on the other hand, have already fallen deeply in love with him. Well, there are exeptions to the rule. I know there are a lot of woman who don't mind ending the relationship and jumping from one man to another. These I don't think is a relationship with love.
Now for those woman who stays in the relationship, they are the ones stuck trying so hard to work back the relationship. While man is enjoying himself treating her differently; no longer sweet as they used to be, talks mean to her, gets into some sort of infidelity and other stuff which they thought woman don't know, no matter how hard they deny. And when woman tries to start a conversation to patch things up, man automatically becomes deffensive and call that move as nagging or whining. Therefore, things becomes worst, because man would not want to communicate.
We know that man was from Mars and woman was from Venus. There's no need to argue why woman talk and think differently from man.
What man don't understand is that woman has an instinct and it's always right, therefore, we don't speculate.
But because man would always want to project a macho image, they try to show women that they are always wrong, but what they don't know, is that since woman is trying to work the relationship, they just let the man think that way.
If only man stops being a chauvinist and treat a woman equal with love and full respect from day 1 til the present, just like how woman treats their man like a king, then both will live a peaceful and harmonious relationship forever.
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